According to Prabowo Subianto in the book “Military Leadership Notes from Experience Chapter I: Exemplary Leaders of The Indonesian Armed Forces,” he learned a valuable life lesson from Pak Ben Mboi. Pak Ben Mboi advised Prabowo that in order to be a good leader, he must love his people and use common sense. Prabowo also emphasizes the importance of understanding the feelings, sufferings, and needs of others as a leader. This philosophy was further reinforced by a Javanese proverb that Prabowo holds dear to this day.
During a meeting with Pak Ben Mboi, Prabowo heard stories of heroism and leadership during the West Irian liberation campaign. He recounted a moment when Pak Harto, later known as President Suharto, gave troops a 50% chance of survival speech before a risky mission. Despite the odds, the troops showed unwavering heroism and determination to carry out their duty.
Prabowo also shared another story about Pak Ben Mboi, who retired without a home. His subordinates and staff rallied together to fundraise and build him a house as a gesture of gratitude and respect for his years of service. This act exemplifies the dedication and sacrifice of many Indonesian leaders who served their country without seeking personal gain.
Overall, Prabowo emphasizes the importance of loving and understanding one’s people as a leader, as well as using common sense to navigate challenges. These values, imparted to him by Pak Ben Mboi, have remained with him throughout his career and continue to guide his leadership approach.
